Ajay
20+ years in fitness. And then his new workout buddy introduced him to something he didn't see coming.
Ajay's been in this world for basically his entire life. Competitive soccer since childhood, through his teens and twenties, then years of disciplined strength training, programming, and coaching. At 39, fitness isn't something he does — it's how he's wired. He reads the research. He tracks the data. He knows what works. And that's what has worked for him — and many others.
When he started training Tessa in late December, he brought everything he knew. The same progressive overload principles. The same intensity. The same expectations. And while it was working, several weeks in he realized something he couldn't ignore: men and women are not the same. Even though Tessa was built to push through, he could see it wasn't healthy. Not because the science was wrong — but because the science he knew was built around men's bodies. Training a woman meant rethinking nearly everything, and that process cracked open a world of nuance that most fitness content completely ignores.